Activist Genesis Be Shares Communication Tips at Honors College Wellness Workshops

A woman speaks into a microphone while standing in a room where there is a colorful mural of school kids painted on the wall behind her. Image by Ed Brennen
Genesis Be, global ambassador for the nonprofit organization Moral Courage, shared tips for turning heated debates into healthy conversations during wellness workshops hosted by the Honors College as part of its annual "Honor Yourself Week."

10/15/2024
By Ed Brennen

With less than a month to go before a deeply divided U.S. presidential election, the听Honors College听took the opportunity to give 51视频 students, faculty and staff a few skills that can help turn heated debates over polarizing issues into healthy conversations.

As part of its annual 鈥淗onor Yourself Week鈥� wellness campaign, the Honors College welcomed Genesis Be, a global ambassador for the nonprofit organization听, to lead workshops on North and South campuses.

The Biloxi, Mississippi, native also screened her award-winning documentary film, 鈥淢ississippi Turning,鈥� which chronicles her efforts to remove the Confederate emblem from her home state鈥檚 flag.

鈥淥ne aspect of wellness that I think we often forget about, but that is particularly important 鈥� especially at this time 鈥� is to learn how to deal with discord and have difficult conversations about issues that people are very passionate about,鈥� said Honors College Dean听Jenifer Whitten-Woodring.听

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Honors College Dean Jenifer Whitten-Woodring, left, takes notes while Genesis Be leads a workshop with students on how to turn heated debate into healthy dialogue at Coburn Hall.
Be, an artist, activist and rapper,听听in 2016 when she draped herself in the Confederate flag and hung a noose around her neck during a performance in New York City to protest the Mississippi governor鈥檚 declaration of April as Confederate Heritage Month.听

The documentary, which will be released next year, shows the ensuing hate that Be received online 鈥� and also the real-life connection she made with a young man named Louis McFall, who told her that he disagreed with her views but respected her right to express them. (Mississippi changed its flag in 2020 following the protests of the murder of George Floyd.)

鈥淚 was getting such vitriol online, but his message stood out because he used the term 鈥榬espect,鈥欌�� Be said of McFall, who died last year at the age of 36. 鈥淗e was open-minded enough to not attack me. He extended with respect, and I think that gave me the permission to do the same.鈥�


Be shared the five core communication skills that Moral Courage teaches to organizations: breathe deeply; create common ground; ask what the other believes; listen to learn, not merely to understand; and say, 鈥淭ell me more.鈥�

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A student shares her thoughts during the Honor Yourself Week workshop at Coburn Hall.
First-year computer science major Alexander Shapiro now plans to say 鈥渢ell me more鈥� when talking politics with his grandparents.

鈥淭hey鈥檙e definitely a handful, but I feel like asking them to explain their views will help us talk more constructively,鈥� said Shapiro, who is from Methuen, Massachusetts.

Erin McDevitt, a first-year business major from Portland, Oregon, was struck by how Be was both confident and vulnerable.听

鈥淚t was super-inspirational,鈥� said McDevitt, who plans to listen to learn more in the future. 鈥淪ometimes I just listen and I鈥檓 like, 鈥榊eah, I agree,鈥� because I鈥檓 hearing their perspective, but I鈥檓 not actually trying to learn.鈥�

As a member of the UML women鈥檚 lacrosse team, McDevitt is surrounded by students with different perspectives from all walks of life. Be鈥檚 presentation served as a reminder, McDevitt said, that people should be able to talk with one another without 鈥渨alking on eggshells.鈥�

A woman in a white sweatshirt and black pants holds a microphone while speaking to an audience in a room. Image by Ed Brennen
After leading a morning workshop at Alumni Hall on North Campus, Genesis Be spoke with students at Coburn Hall on South Campus.
鈥淚t鈥檚 OK to have different points of views,鈥� she said.

Be鈥檚 advice to take a deep breath resonated with Sergey Batrin, a first-year chemical engineering major from North Andover, Massachusetts.

鈥淚 feel like I'm always rushing to say what I have to say next, but taking a deep breath lets me process what the other person is saying,鈥� said Batrin, who has been troubled by the growing polarization that he鈥檚 seen in society in recent years.

鈥淕rowing up, I always saw these two-sided disagreements in America where nobody listens,鈥� he said. 鈥淚 don鈥檛 care if someone disagrees, but why do some people have such one-dimensional minds? Try hearing the other side out before you set your point of view in stone.鈥�

Be said it鈥檚 important for students to learn these communication skills because 鈥渃ollege should be the place where people can speak about anything and disagree and have healthy 鈥� not only debate, but intentional discussion.鈥�

鈥淚 don't know where we're at in our country when it comes to freedom of speech and censorship anymore, but I think that it's healthy for us to push for more of that,鈥� she said. 鈥淎nd I think talking to the future leaders of our country, letting them know that that division you see online 鈥� I call it 鈥榯he industry of division鈥� 鈥� you don鈥檛 have to be a part of that.鈥�

鈥淵ou can be a connector of people,鈥� she said. 鈥淵ou can create the culture of conversation, not just be at its whim. There鈥檚 no power in that.鈥�

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